Articles & Guest Features

As a writer for Tickle.Life – the world’s first community-based discovery platform for sexual wellbeing and sexuality – I bring you regular articles on all things, sex, health and relationships.

I also write for Indulgent Desires – an adults-only digital magazine – to bring you the hottest articles, erotica and reviews.

If there is a topic you would love to read about, drop me a message and I will see what I can do!

5th May 2021

Want to know the truth about masturbation? My myth-busting article has got you covered!

What are the Myths About Masturbation?

I have used self-pleasure as a way of exploring my body and mind since I was a teenager. Although I have always been at one with the practice of masturbation, I haven’t always been so willing to talk about it.

14th April 2021

Did you miss my TweetChat on erotic writing, with Tickle.Life?

TweetChat with The Secret Submissive – Erotic Writing

The Secret Submissive’ is the author of honest & immersive BDSM erotica. She is a British Indian author of honest and immersive erotic fiction…

17th February 2021

Are you struggling to enjoy a peaceful night’s sleep? Come and explore my top-tips.

Self-Pleasure and Sleep Better

A restless night’s sleep can ruin your mood and your day. Tiredness often exacerbates overthinking and can affect even simple decision-making, adding unnecessary stress to your day…

14th February 2021

Don’t just survive Valentine’s Day this year – enjoy it!

Valentine’s Day: The Survival Guide

This controversial holiday should be a light-hearted celebration of love and relationships but for so many, even the build-up is tainted…

6th January 2021

Become a better lover with my tip-top sex tips!

Bedroom Basics: How to be a GREAT Lover

Heart-racing, earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex isn’t reserved for the elite.

15th December 2020

Enjoy Part 1 of my sexy, filthy story, Lust: Dancing with the Devil, for free (originally written for the Seven Sexy Sins charity anthology)

Indulgent Desires

Story: Lust (Part 1)
by The Secret Submissive
Lucille was dangerously beautiful. With an insatiable appetite, she burned through men with neither reservation nor regret, leaving a wreck of shattered hearts and aching cocks in her wake. She was the forbidden fruit…

9th December 2020

This year, I have been lucky enough to team up with the wonderful T.B.C and contribute to their fun and festive Christmas Collaborations series with a sex, warming, festive BDSM tale!

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A Kinkmas Miracle by The Secretive Submissive ’T’was the night before Christmas, when all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not…

2nd December 2020

SUBSCRIPTION REQUIRED: Turn up the heat this Sexmas with my five hot-tips for ultimate festive fun!

Indulgent Desires

Have Yourself A Naughty Little Christmas by The Secret Submissive

Don’t let lockdown or the winter blues spoil your fun this holiday. Use this time, stuck indoors, to get adventurous and make some sexy, kinky memories with the one you love…

22nd October 2020

First times don’t have to be intimidating… let my first time sex tips bring peace and clarity to your mind.

5 Ultimate Tips for First Time Sex

Conquer those ‘first-time sex’ fears and enjoy every sexy second in the bedroom with my top-tips for first-timers…
The prospect of a first-time sexual experience can be extremely daunting and you may find yourself wondering: am I ready? How will it feel? Is it the time right? Although it is natural …

01st September 2020

Need a little help in preparing to share more about your life, sexuality or relationship status with the ones you love? Head over to Tickle.Life and enjoy my top five tips for having difficult conversations, today!

Difficult Conversations

They Just Don’t Listen! Those big conversations with the ones you love…
Here are five easy ways to slay when it comes to having that difficult talk…
As an opinionated and progressive British Indian girl, I have spent much of my adult life challenging and questioning the societal and cultural ‘norms’…

30th June 2020

My second article for Tickle.Life explores my journey from being a Good Indian Girl to The Secret Submissive – Author of Honest & Immersive BDSM Erotica…

Sex vs. Sin: Life as a Kinky British Indian Girl

My journey from being a Good Indian Girl to The Secret Submissive – Author of Honest & Immersive BDSM Erotica…

14th May 2020

In this article, for Tickle.Life, I’ll tell you how to make the most of your free time during lockdown and experience amazing orgasms, with my top five solo-sex tips…

Explosive Lock down Orgasms… – Tickle.Life

Make the most of your free time with my top five solo-sex tips and experience explosive lock down orgasms by exciting that libido during coronavirus!

Sir and I are completely hooked on anal hooks! Read all about it in my post for 1000 Sex Tips!

Sex Tip #24: Completely Hooked! by The Secret Submissive & Sir

ABOUT The Secret Submissive & Sir I’m an owned submissive who uses her experiences and desires to write the hottest,honest and immersive BDSM erotica. Sir works behind the scenes to provide endless inspiration andto fulfil those steamy desires! TELL US A STORY: SIRSUB Sub was told clearly what was g…