Articles & Guest Features

As a writer for Tickle.Life – the world’s first community-based discovery platform for sexual wellbeing and sexuality – I bring you regular articles on all things, sex, health and relationships. If there is a topic you would love to read about, drop me a message and I will see what I can do!

22nd October 2020

First times don’t have to be intimidating… let my first time sex tips bring peace and clarity to your mind.

5 Ultimate Tips for First Time Sex

Conquer those ‘first-time sex’ fears and enjoy every sexy second in the bedroom with my top-tips for first-timers…
The prospect of a first-time sexual experience can be extremely daunting and you may find yourself wondering: am I ready? How will it feel? Is it the time right? Although it is natural …

01st September 2020

Need a little help in preparing to share more about your life, sexuality or relationship status with the ones you love? Head over to Tickle.Life and enjoy my top five tips for having difficult conversations, today!

Difficult Conversations

They Just Don’t Listen! Those big conversations with the ones you love…
Here are five easy ways to slay when it comes to having that difficult talk…
As an opinionated and progressive British Indian girl, I have spent much of my adult life challenging and questioning the societal and cultural ‘norms’…

30th June 2020

My second article for Tickle.Life explores my journey from being a Good Indian Girl to The Secret Submissive – Author of Honest & Immersive BDSM Erotica…

Sex vs. Sin: Life as a Kinky British Indian Girl

My journey from being a Good Indian Girl to The Secret Submissive – Author of Honest & Immersive BDSM Erotica…

14th May 2020

In this article, for Tickle.Life, I’ll tell you how to make the most of your free time during lockdown and experience amazing orgasms, with my top five solo-sex tips…

Explosive Lock down Orgasms… – Tickle.Life

Make the most of your free time with my top five solo-sex tips and experience explosive lock down orgasms by exciting that libido during coronavirus!

10th May 2020

I put my heart on my sleeve and wrote about my journey of self-discovery, so far, for Letters For A Stanger. It’s a poem and a letter that both mean a lot to me. Enjoy…

Five — Lessons For A Stranger

Love yourself. Five addresses the difficulty and determination of The Secret Submissive to accept and love herself as she is.

Sir and I are completely hooked on anal hooks! Read all about it in my post for 1000 Sex Tips!

Sex Tip #24: Completely Hooked! by The Secret Submissive & Sir

ABOUT The Secret Submissive & Sir I’m an owned submissive who uses her experiences and desires to write the hottest,honest and immersive BDSM erotica. Sir works behind the scenes to provide endless inspiration andto fulfil those steamy desires! TELL US A STORY: SIRSUB Sub was told clearly what was g…