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The Power of Masturbation: Girls Just Want to Have Fun!
Masturbation extracts from the BDSM erotica collection, A Taste of Submission.
9th June 2021
Being a Submissive is a huge part of my identity. Come and see what it means to me…
BDSM Basics: What is a Submissive?
An exploration into the noun choice, ‘Submissive’ and the power it wields.
5th May 2021
Want to know the truth about masturbation? My myth-busting article has got you covered!
What are the Myths About Masturbation?
I have used self-pleasure as a way of exploring my body and mind since I was a teenager. Although I have always been at one with the practice of masturbation, I haven’t always been so willing to talk about it.
14th April 2021
Did you miss my TweetChat on erotic writing, with Tickle.Life?
TweetChat with The Secret Submissive – Erotic Writing
The Secret Submissive’ is the author of honest & immersive BDSM erotica. She is a British Indian author of honest and immersive erotic fiction…
17th February 2021
Are you struggling to enjoy a peaceful night’s sleep? Come and explore my top-tips.
Self-Pleasure and Sleep Better
A restless night’s sleep can ruin your mood and your day. Tiredness often exacerbates overthinking and can affect even simple decision-making, adding unnecessary stress to your day…
14th February 2021
Don’t just survive Valentine’s Day this year – enjoy it!
Valentine’s Day: The Survival Guide
This controversial holiday should be a light-hearted celebration of love and relationships but for so many, even the build-up is tainted…
6th January 2021
Become a better lover with my tip-top sex tips!
Bedroom Basics: How to be a GREAT Lover
Heart-racing, earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex isn’t reserved for the elite.
9th December 2020
This year, I have been lucky enough to team up with the wonderful T.B.C and contribute to their fun and festive Christmas Collaborations series with a sex, warming, festive BDSM tale!
A Kinkmas Miracle by The Secretive Submissive ’T’was the night before Christmas, when all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not…
First times don’t have to be intimidating… let my first time sex tips bring peace and clarity to your mind.
5 Ultimate Tips for First Time Sex
Conquer those ‘first-time sex’ fears and enjoy every sexy second in the bedroom with my top-tips for first-timers…
The prospect of a first-time sexual experience can be extremely daunting and you may find yourself wondering: am I ready? How will it feel? Is it the time right? Although it is natural …
1st September 2020
Need a little help in preparing to share more about your life, sexuality or relationship status with the ones you love? Head over to Tickle.Life and enjoy my top five tips for having difficult conversations, today!
They Just Don’t Listen! Those big conversations with the ones you love…
Here are five easy ways to slay when it comes to having that difficult talk…
As an opinionated and progressive British Indian girl, I have spent much of my adult life challenging and questioning the societal and cultural ‘norms’…
30th June 2020
My second article for Tickle.Life explores my journey from being a Good Indian Girl to The Secret Submissive – Author of Honest & Immersive BDSM Erotica…
Sex vs. Sin: Life as a Kinky British Indian Girl
My journey from being a Good Indian Girl to The Secret Submissive – Author of Honest & Immersive BDSM Erotica…
14th May 2020
In this article, for Tickle.Life, I’ll tell you how to make the most of your free time during lockdown and experience amazing orgasms, with my top five solo-sex tips…
Explosive Lock down Orgasms… – Tickle.Life
Make the most of your free time with my top five solo-sex tips and experience explosive lock down orgasms by exciting that libido during coronavirus!
13th April 2020
Sir and I are completely hooked on anal hooks! Read all about it in my post for 1000 Sex Tips!
Sex Tip #24: Completely Hooked! by The Secret Submissive & Sir
ABOUT The Secret Submissive & Sir I’m an owned submissive who uses her experiences and desires to write the hottest,honest and immersive BDSM erotica. Sir works behind the scenes to provide endless inspiration andto fulfil those steamy desires! TELL US A STORY: SIRSUB Sub was told clearly what was g…