Share your favourite BDSM & sex tips to make playtime even more exciting…

One of the best things about the world of BDSM is the sense of support and community that we share. Pair this with our devilish sense of freedom, filth and fun and it’s easy to see why the lifestyle is so addictive!

Kinkspiration is, therefore, dedicated to you! Enjoy swapping & sharing your naughty ideas and I hope you feel inspired…

Use the form below to submit your sexiest, kinkiest or filthiest tips & tricks. Here are some ideas:

  • Favourite sex positions
  • Innovative ways to punish your Sub
  • New uses for common items
  • Roleplay ideas
  • Must-have toys and equipment
  • Unexpected favourites

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The Secret Submissive
Here are my favourite household items to repurpose for a spanking: wooden spoon, hairbrush, slipper, ping-pong bat!
Jaimee Bell
No nipple clamps? No problem: use clothespins. You're welcome!
Hansa Bosbach
If she has been a very good girl.. put her to bed that night and let her sleep with your cock inside her. It is both sexy and lovingly intimate. Sweet dreams.... 🙂
An unexpected favourite of ours has been the anal hook, as part of an ongoing liking for metal bondage, including chains.
Try a session without the blindfold. You will be amazed at how deep the eye contact can take the connection and make it so much more intense. Sometimes don't let them see your next move; sometimes look them straight in the eyes while you do it. Maximize the intensity.
Lysette Turner
When in doubt, eat some ass. I have found this works for men, women, in real-life and in my writing.
Use a plastic scrubbing brush as a sensory and/or impact toy. It's very flexible as you vary how hard you press on it and how you move it, dragging across the arse, twisting on a nipple, etc.
TSS's Dom
If my sub cums without permission, the punishment she receives needs to educate her & improve her self-control. After a BJ, she's made to keep my cum in her mouth with a pair of knickers over her face to ensure not a drop is spilt. Then she's placed firmly over my knee & spanked thoroughly - 25 strokes minimum, perhaps with a leather slipper. If a drop is spilt or swallowed, she knows that a caning will follow.
Kinky Katie
Gaffa tape! Something so naughty feeling about it. Either for tying me up or taping the Hitachi Wand against my clit!
If you do "figging" keep fresh Ginger in a baggie & store in the vegetable drawer of a refrigerator.
Sue Philips
A feather dipped in honey or ice-cream and used as a trail down my partner's body, across erogenous zones.
The use of a disposable electric toothbrush can really work on nipples and the clitoris.
Use a makeup brush to caress your sub's body. It will be very pleasant, but a while later, they will badly crave for more. It's only up to you, how long you want to let them beg.
Indulgent Desires
Don’t underestimate biting... It’s a great entry-level way to play because you can test different levels of pain. And we like to think of bite marks as love notes written in flesh...

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